Live Positive and Stay Positive

Live Positive and Stay Positive

Are we born with attitudes, or do we develop them as we grow?

A negative outlook tends to make a person’s attitude negative, and this negative attitude, my friends, adversely affects your life.Let’s examine people with negative attitudes. They are called pessimists. They never look at the bright side of any event.

People with a negative attitude:

  • Always feel unhappy—even when they have no troubles to speak of
  • Always feel bad when others feel good about themselves, and when others feel better, they feel worse
  • Spend most of their time complaining
  • Look for cracks in the mirror of life
  • Never believe in themselves

The basic idea here is to stay away from all this negativity. A negative person always pulls you down like gravity and never lets you reach your best level. Always try to grow a positive attitude. A person with a positive attitude is bound to succeed in life.

So, how do you start to think positive?

Well, start by making a habit of doing things now. Always get into the habit of living in the present and start to do things now. Always look at the bright side of any event. It’s not always easy to look for the positive in the negative, but with time, practice, and patience, you will achieve this ability. However, remember that looking for positive does not necessarily mean overlooking faults.
Make all your friends and family believe that you appreciate their good qualities and strengths. Always keep in mind, “Think only the best, work to achieve the best, and accept only the best.” A person might have high intelligence but poor judgment, so always choose your advisors carefully, and use your judgment to decide.

  • Effects of a positive attitude:
  • It makes you very pleasant and enjoyable.
  • It charges you inside.
  • It inspires others around you.
  • It increases productivity at work.

To be honest, the effects of positive energy are endless. To figure out more about staying healthy from inside and living a stress-free life, please connect with me onLinkedIn and Move Out of Your Own Way website.

Dr. Cherry A. Collier
Chief Engagement Officer (CEO) and Head Coach of PACE


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Cherry A. Collier, Ph.D., MCC, CNLPMC, RCC, CPCC
Chief Collaboration Officer, Master Certified Executive Coach & Inclusion Strategist

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Dr. Cherry

Cherry A. Collier, Ph.D. is an Organizational Psychologist, Strategist, Executive Coach, and Diversity, Inclusion, & Belonging Consultant for Personality Matters, Inc. Her science-based approach and brain-based techniques, propel people, teams, and organizations to build bridges and work from the inside out to achieve their goals. Dr. Cherry specializes in emotional intelligence, neuroscience, leadership development, and DEI Diversity, Equity and Inclusion. She received her Doctorate and Master of Science in Applied Social/Organizational Psychology from the University of Georgia and Graduated Magna Cum Laude from Spelman College. She is the author of more than twenty-five Human Behavior related books for leaders, executives, and coaches. Dr. Cherry is often called the DEI Whisperer because she has a unique ability to fiercely “hold the space” and be totally present which creates a psychologically safe environment that allows others all the space they need to fully express themselves. She listens to others with head, heart and hands approach so that they are heard, seen and understood.