We must be an equal opportunity offender of bad behavior! Call it out!

I see myself as someone that doesn’t agree with what is popular I use my own mind to think and comment. I love learning and I love to read. I never expect anyone to agree with me and I am never upset by people that have different life experiences than I do. I welcome them! I think the greatest measure of a person is NOT how they handle success but rather rejection or failure. I don’t like anyone using racial slurs. Black or White. I am glad the young man from Kentucky apologized quickly and I don’t think this was acceptable at all!!! This is why I want us to just stop using the n- word period! It doesn’t help! You certainly can’t use it against someone just because you lost and think you can get a pass! If the situation was reversed I wouldn’t have been able to log on to my facebook or linkedin today without comments of the racist world we live in! We have got to be willing to call out bad behavior and not just things that are unfair in one direction! This was wrong!!!!

People teach your children that they will NOT always win! Stop passing out these fourth winner awards! They lost! People will NOT always be accepted to schools, on teams, in sororities, fraternities, jobs, etc. We must learn how to accept defeat with the same grace we accept winning! You can’t win all the time! The best success is NOT revenge it is learning from the lost! Get the lesson and keep on moving! No naming calling, no spite and gloating after! Humility in winning and losing! PERIOD!!!! The sun will NOT always shine! Rain has to come. Appreciate the rain just like you appreciate the sun! Practice to win and accept whatever happens!! Class dismissed!‪#‎carryon‬


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Dr. Cherry Collier Ph.D. in Social/Organizational Psychology from UGA. Master Certified Coach (MCC) through the ICF and a Master Certified Coach and Trainer of NLP (MCNLP), Certified Mediator and Denison Culture Certified Consultant. Author of Move Out of Your Own Way and a 100+ book series The Science and Art, a collection of best selling books on the science of human behavior and success being used as reference for leaders, executives, managers and coaches from a variety of industries and professions. Professor of Coaching for the last 6 years at a University. Professor of Entrepreneurship in the Business School of a University. Over 5,000 hours helping with clients and coaches get massive results. Over 15 years serving as a mentor coach. Published scholar and has mentored Ph.D. and MBA learners. Founding Member of Coachville. Certified in various assessments Disc, MBTI and more